We Got Your Back! (IWSG Feb,2022)

Hello to my IWSG fellows

I read an interesting term, called ritual being sometime back, and it’s stayed with me. Last month I couldn’t post for the IWSG and couldn’t even visit other writers because ‘C’ that stormed the world two years back struck home and I dealt with my share of the pandemic. But writing every month for the IWSG has become such a ritual that I missed not having posted. I guess that’s the thing about habit formation and rituals. They become such a part of us that to break away takes a good deal of effort.

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So, the question for February 2, is ‘Is there someone who supported or influenced you that perhaps isn’t around anymore? Anyone you miss?’

Presuming that this question pertains only to our writing journey, let me begin by saying that not just writing alone, every creative pursuit is a solitary journey. Unless we meet those, who are equally stimulated by it. I’ve been lucky in the sense that my family has been supportive of my creative journey, giving me the space to pursue the same and by not encroaching upon my writing time. Rather they ensure that I am writing on a regular basis because they know how not being able to write makes me restless. I am also pampered with books to read and with writing material. But we are people with different sensibilities and varied interests. However, that holds little significance because sometimes all you need to know is that someone’s got your back.  

I’ve had teachers since school who were appreciative of my craft and took the trouble to provide feedback. During graduation I had a friend who was also my room-mate. If there was a peak learning period in my life, it was with her. She introduced me to aspects of writing that I hadn’t been aware of and I can say she helped me polish my craft. We are no longer in touch but there’s a lot to thank her for.

Finally, I’ve met strangers whose influence on my work is unmissable. This includes fellow writers, critics, friends and random readers. I cannot say that I miss someone particularly, but their two-minute role in my writing journey has been multi-dimensional. One of them was the editor of Teens Today (a popular magazine in the ‘90s), Ameena Jayal. Being a regular subscriber of the magazine, I decided to send in a submission for the same. The piece was not selected but I received a hand-written letter from the editor saying that she saw great promise in me and she also included some writing advice in it. I was twelve back then. I don’t know if editors have the time or the bandwidth to do that kind of a thing today, but the way it worked for me, I try to pass on the same kindness to others, especially children interested in writing.

In short, maybe I’ve been lucky, but I can say that a little encouragement helps go a long way. At least, it always keeps you miles away from giving up your dream. What’s your story of encouragement? Do share in the comments below.

The co-hosts for this month are  Joylene Nowell Butler, Jacqui Murray, Sandra Cox, and Lee Lowery! Do visit them and show some love. And a big shoutout to our Ninja captain Alex J. Cavanaugh for this wonderful group.

15 thoughts on “We Got Your Back! (IWSG Feb,2022)”

  1. I am sure your room mate would be also missing you as you miss her. Such phases come in life for a brief phase but the learning curve is very steep. So happy to know that you have had support from your family.

  2. I’ve believed for a long time that meeting someone leaves some of them with me, and a little of me with them. Every meeting, no matter how small, changes us on an elemental level that makes us better people.


  3. We can find support in the most unexpected places, even from strangers. And it is important that we be the support we want, for others. As writers, we do need to connect with others who are on the same journey. It’s all about community.

  4. Great post. That letter from the editor must’ve been an extraordinary thing for a twelve-year-old girl. It would’ve been one for any age, really. Have you tried contacting that editor now? She would be charmed by your story, I’m sure.

  5. Hi,
    You have been blessed to have a large support system behind you. At the moment,, you don’t know it any other way. So, if the time does come that you lose someone in your support system, I hope you will have expressed your gratitude to them for their support.
    Wishing you all the best.

    Shalom aleichem,
    Pat G @ EverythingMustChange

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